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How to calm the intensity of your feelings (1 minute read)<\/h1>\n

This post “Increase your self-esteem by calming the intensity of your feelings<\/em>” continues with how you can increase your self-esteem by getting to know yourself.<\/p>\n

The last posts have been about the intensity of feelings which can be labelled on a scale \u2018cold\u2019 to \u2018hot\u2019 depending on how much arousal they generate in our nervous system.<\/p>\n

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How to calm the intensity of your feelings:<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Even if we know our fear is disproportionately strong, the feeling needs to be acknowledged by the 8 steps described in an earlier post, which per se calms the body.<\/p>\n

Thereafter, you can talk to yourself about the realism in your fear to regulate down the feeling even more.<\/p>\n

If you are high in the intensity of the feeling so that you are in fight-flight mode \u2013 the \u2018hot\u2019 version, you first have to regulate down the intensity of the feeling to be able to reappraise the situation.<\/p>\n

You can use the same techniques that I have described in the post Anxiety & Stress: 16 effective strategies for calming acute stress & worry (1-minute-read)<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

More about how you can increase your self-esteem in the next post. See also the free blog or the course\u00a0How to develop self-esteem and boost your confidence<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0<\/strong>at\u00a0https:\/\/jennyrappbefree.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

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More information<\/strong><\/h2>\n

If you have any questions you would like answered, you can write them in the comments field. E-mail me at\u00a0jennyrapp@jennyrapp.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

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How to calm the intensity of your feelings (1 minute read) This post “Increase your self-esteem by calming the intensity of your feelings” continues with how you can increase your self-esteem by getting to know yourself. The last posts have been about the intensity of feelings which can be labelled on a scale \u2018cold\u2019 to …<\/p>\n

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