Warning: Constant DISALLOW_FILE_EDIT already defined in /customers/9/f/9/jennyrappbefree.com/httpd.www/wp-config.php on line 103 Warning: Cannot modify header information - headers already sent by (output started at /customers/9/f/9/jennyrappbefree.com/httpd.www/wp-config.php:103) in /customers/9/f/9/jennyrappbefree.com/httpd.www/wp-includes/rest-api/class-wp-rest-server.php on line 1723 Warning: Cannot modify header information - headers already sent by (output started at /customers/9/f/9/jennyrappbefree.com/httpd.www/wp-config.php:103) in /customers/9/f/9/jennyrappbefree.com/httpd.www/wp-includes/rest-api/class-wp-rest-server.php on line 1723 Warning: Cannot modify header information - headers already sent by (output started at /customers/9/f/9/jennyrappbefree.com/httpd.www/wp-config.php:103) in /customers/9/f/9/jennyrappbefree.com/httpd.www/wp-includes/rest-api/class-wp-rest-server.php on line 1723 Warning: Cannot modify header information - headers already sent by (output started at /customers/9/f/9/jennyrappbefree.com/httpd.www/wp-config.php:103) in /customers/9/f/9/jennyrappbefree.com/httpd.www/wp-includes/rest-api/class-wp-rest-server.php on line 1723 Warning: Cannot modify header information - headers already sent by (output started at /customers/9/f/9/jennyrappbefree.com/httpd.www/wp-config.php:103) in /customers/9/f/9/jennyrappbefree.com/httpd.www/wp-includes/rest-api/class-wp-rest-server.php on line 1723 Warning: Cannot modify header information - headers already sent by (output started at /customers/9/f/9/jennyrappbefree.com/httpd.www/wp-config.php:103) in /customers/9/f/9/jennyrappbefree.com/httpd.www/wp-includes/rest-api/class-wp-rest-server.php on line 1723 Warning: Cannot modify header information - headers already sent by (output started at /customers/9/f/9/jennyrappbefree.com/httpd.www/wp-config.php:103) in /customers/9/f/9/jennyrappbefree.com/httpd.www/wp-includes/rest-api/class-wp-rest-server.php on line 1723 Warning: Cannot modify header information - headers already sent by (output started at /customers/9/f/9/jennyrappbefree.com/httpd.www/wp-config.php:103) in /customers/9/f/9/jennyrappbefree.com/httpd.www/wp-includes/rest-api/class-wp-rest-server.php on line 1723 {"id":27652,"date":"2020-09-07T06:49:04","date_gmt":"2020-09-07T04:49:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jennyrappbefree.com\/?p=27652"},"modified":"2021-01-01T20:54:11","modified_gmt":"2021-01-01T19:54:11","slug":"self-esteem-projective-identification","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jennyrappbefree.com\/self-esteem-projective-identification\/","title":{"rendered":"Increase your self-esteem by understanding others impact on you – projective identification (1 minute read)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Increase your self-esteem by understanding others impact on you – projective identification (1 minute read)<\/strong><\/h1>\n
This post “Increase your self-esteem by understanding others impact on you – projective identification)<\/em> continues with how you can increase your self-esteem by managing your thoughts and feelings.<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Increase your self-esteem by understanding others impact on you:<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Projective identification is an immature defense mechanism. It is when one person\u2019s feelings or anxiety are transferred into another person. This may be felt as either good or bad.<\/p>\n
It is a very primitive form of relating often used by children, even if we all sometimes use it.<\/p>\n
The receiver feels as one with the other person. They share a delusional state. For example, a little baby cannot talk but can make the parent feel the same feeling.<\/p>\n
Knowing that we might be feeling other person\u2019s feelings helps us take things less personally and resist acting out.<\/p>\n
Projective identification can also happen when a person has difficulties owning own positive qualities and assets due to many types of fears: fear of envy, being abandoned or harming someone.<\/p>\n
To counter this, it is very important to trust oneself and be clear about who is responsible for what.<\/p>\n
For example: A manager might not know everything. Maybe the \u2018incompetent\u2019 employee contributes.<\/p>\n
Or the scorned spouse should take a look at each person\u2019s contribution to an ongoing problem since both may be partly responsible.<\/p>\n
More about how you can increase your self-esteem in the next post. See also the free blog or the course How to develop self-esteem and boost your confidence<\/strong><\/a> <\/strong>at https:\/\/jennyrappbefree.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
More information:<\/strong><\/h2>\nIf you have any questions you can write a comment or e-mail me at jennyrapp@jennyrapp.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n
Find more free inspiration on how to increase your self-esteem under the heading here https:\/\/www.jennyrapp.com\/self-esteem\/<\/strong><\/a> at https:\/\/www.jennyrapp.com\/<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Courses in personal development at <\/strong>https:\/\/www.jennyrappbefree.com\/<\/strong><\/a>:<\/strong><\/h2>\nDevelop self-esteem & boost your confidence<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n
Stress management<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n
Deal with Exhaustion<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n
Relationships & inner strength<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n
Create a balanced life & reach your potential<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n
Personal development<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n
Powerful insights in psychology<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n
HSP: Handle feelings, thoughts & behaviours<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n
<\/p>\n\n\n
$\"Increase$ Increase your self-esteem by understanding others impact on you<\/strong><\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Increase your self-esteem by understanding others impact on you – projective identification (1 minute read) This post “Increase your self-esteem by understanding others impact on you – projective identification) continues with how you can increase your self-esteem by managing your thoughts and feelings. Increase your self-esteem by understanding others impact on you: Projective identification is an …<\/p>\n
Increase your self-esteem by understanding others impact on you – projective identification (1 minute read)<\/span> Read More »<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":""},"categories":[122,144,130,128],"tags":[97,76,75,146,145,98,106,111,120,147,142,119,113,134,141,139,137,136,140,138,107,135,102,118],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyrappbefree.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27652"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyrappbefree.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyrappbefree.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyrappbefree.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyrappbefree.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27652"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyrappbefree.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27652\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28639,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyrappbefree.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27652\/revisions\/28639"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyrappbefree.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27652"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyrappbefree.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27652"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyrappbefree.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27652"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}